Unleashing Your Authentic Self: A Journey into Core Values
- alteregowellness
- Jan 3, 2024
- 2 min read

Welcome to our transformative journey through the intricate world of core values in this edition of the Alter Ego life coaching newsletter. In this issue, we'll not only explore what core values are and how to uncover them but also delve into real-life examples to inspire and guide you on your quest for authenticity.
Understanding Core Values:
Core values are the fundamental beliefs that drive our behavior and decision-making. They represent the essence of who we are and what we stand for. Identifying and understanding these values is a crucial step towards leading a more fulfilling and authentic life.
Discovering Your Core Values:
Self-Reflection: Picture moments in your life when you felt most alive. What were you doing, and what values were at the forefront during those instances?
Identify Key Themes: Notice recurring themes that bring joy or a sense of fulfillment. These themes often hold the key to unlocking your core values.
Prioritize: Once identified, prioritize your values. What is non-negotiable for you? To help, here are a few examples of core values:
Authenticity: Being true to oneself and others.
Compassion: Showing empathy and kindness towards others.
Courage: Facing challenges with bravery and resilience.
Creativity: Expressing oneself through imaginative and innovative pursuits.
Integrity: Upholding honesty and moral principles.
Seek Feedback: Ask those close to you for insights into your values. Sometimes, an external perspective can provide valuable clarity.
Integrating Core Values into Your Life:
Alignment with Goals: Ensure your goals resonate with your core values. For example, if one of your core values is authenticity, align your career and personal pursuits with opportunities that allow you to express your true self.
Decision-Making Guide: Use your values as a compass when making decisions. For instance, if family is a core value, consider how your choices impact your loved ones.
Daily Practices: Cultivate daily habits that align with your values. If gratitude is a core value, incorporate a daily gratitude practice into your routine.
Regular Review: Revisit your values periodically. As life evolves, so do your values. Ensure they continue to reflect your authentic self.
Here are five journaling prompts to kickstart your journey of core value discovery:
Reflect on Peak Experiences:
Describe a moment in your life when you felt truly alive and fulfilled. What were you doing, and why did it resonate with you?
Identify Role Models:
Think about individuals you admire or look up to. What qualities or values do they possess that resonate with you?
Define Success on Your Terms:
Envision a successful and fulfilling life for yourself. What values are at the core of this vision?
Explore Childhood Memories:
Recall moments from your childhood that left a lasting impression. What values were instilled in you during those formative years?
Assess Areas of Discontent:
Identify areas of your life where you feel discontent or unfulfilled. What values might be missing or not fully honored in those areas?
Use these prompts as a starting point for deeper self-reflection and exploration. Embark on this journey of self-discovery with an open heart and mind. Embrace the uniqueness of your values, and let them guide you towards a more fulfilling and authentic life. Happy journaling!
Warm regards,
Cathryn, Founder of Alter ego Wellness, Life Coach
P.S. In our next newsletter, we'll explore the transformative power of gratitude and its profound impact on cultivating a positive mindset!
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